Before you dive into planning the wedding of your dreams, let’s talk about something foundational: your budget.
Start by sitting down with your partner—coffee in hand, maybe a playlist in the background—and get clear on what feels realistic and comfortable for both of you. Look at your current savings, chat about how much you can set aside during your engagement, and if it feels right, gently open the conversation with your families to see if they’re planning to contribute.
Once you’ve got a clear picture of your resources, you’ll want to start shaping your wedding budget around what matters most to you both. To make things simple, here’s a breakdown of the ten core categories couples typically plan for:
- Venue & Catering – 40%
This is often your biggest investment and where most of your guests will feel the magic of the day. - Photography & Videography – 15%
Because when it’s all said and done, the photos and films are what bring you back to the feelings. - Music & Entertainment – 10%
Think of this as the heartbeat of your celebration—from your ceremony to your dance floor. - Flowers – 10%
Lush florals or simple stems, they set the tone and breathe beauty into every space. - Décor – 10%
From candles to table settings, the details help tell your story. - Attire & Beauty – 5%
This includes the dress, suit, hair, makeup—everything that helps you feel your most radiant. - Favors & Gifts – 2%
A thoughtful thank you to your guests and wedding party. - Transportation – 3%
Whether it’s a vintage car or a guest shuttle, make sure everyone arrives in style (and on time!). - Stationery – 3%
From your save-the-dates to your day-of signage, this is where your vision first comes to life. - Cake – 2%
Sweet and symbolic—your cake is a delicious moment all its own.
Remember, this is just a starting point. You’ll want to shift things around based on your priorities. Maybe photography is non-negotiable for you (hi, I totally get that!), or maybe you’re dreaming of an intimate dinner party with incredible food. Your wedding should reflect you—beautifully, meaningfully, and intentionally.
